She smiled and answered, "Sure."
"Really?" he said. "I'm a lot older than you. Would you marry me?"
She laughed and answered, "Sure."
"Hmmm... so," he persisted, "if I wasn't married and you weren't married, you'd do that? I've got lots of problems."
"I know," she answered softly.
"I love you, dear," he whispered. "Give me a kiss."
So she kissed his cheek.
"No," he said impatiently. "Like this." And he drew her closer and pressed his mouth against her lips and put his tongue in her mouth. When he finally let her go he said "There... did you like that??"
She didn't answer. She wanted to leave."That's the way to do it... with your tongue. That's like having sex."
She sat there a moment and then got off his lap... and when she could gracefully leave the situation, [she didn't want to hurt his feelings] she slipped into the bathroom to rinse out her mouth.
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And for so many years I imagined that I was the only one this happened to....I cannot believe I found this blog...I am saddened and yet comforted to know that I am not the only one to be violated by a pastor. God help us all....
I am stunned to discover that I am not the only person to have been violated this way by a pastor. For years, I thought I was the only one. I am saddened, yet comforted to know I am not alone in this. God help us all...
Dear Hope,
A person can put up with a lot to feel loved. But this was not love... it was abuse in disguise. Speak out about your abuse. Holding it inside serves no purpose. That's one of the lessons I'm learning.
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